Wednesday, July 9, 2025

Clicks, Likes and Book Sales

What are your thoughts on how much writers should share? 

by Dietrich

Sally Rooney, known for her reticence in discussing her private life, contrasts with the pressures many authors face to share personal details for publicity. In a recent Literary Hub piece, Debbie Urbanski asked, "If I tell you secrets about my personal life, will you look at my new book?" This question highlights the dilemma: in an era where personal branding often overshadows artistic output, how much should writers reveal to promote their work?

While sharing personal stories—through social media, interviews, or essays—can foster a connection with readers, it also raises questions about authenticity and privacy. I see social media offering grassroots promotion opportunities, yet there’s the risk of blurring boundaries between public and private life. Does the literary marketplace start to feel like a confessional booth, where oversharing can be mistaken for authenticity?

The decision to share hinges on intention and agency. When personal stories align with a writer’s values, such as in memoirs that illuminate broader truths, they can resonate deeply. However, oversharing can invite scrutiny rather than empathy and create an expectation for more disclosure. It feels to me that this turns a writer’s life into an open book, potentially at the cost of personal agency.

Sally Rooney’s success—millions of books sold and adaptations on major streaming platforms—demonstrates that a writer’s work can speak louder than personal revelations. While maintaining a social media presence can boost visibility, I think trading privacy for publicity feels like it comes at a steep price. Instead of divulging intimate details, I’d sooner focus on sharing thoughts on the creative process, my literary influences, even intellectual passions to hopefully engage readers without sacrificing  personal boundaries. Besides, I think a touch of mystery can be more compelling than an open book.

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