by Paul D. Marks
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One way to manage time. |
I used to be very disciplined. Self-starter. Fire in the belly. And I still am to some extent, just not as much as I used to be. So, the question is why. Lots of reasons, of course. I have a dog that’s getting older and I want to spend more time with her. I have some personal issues I’m dealing with and they can be distracting. Life.
There’s really no web site or app that helps me manage my time. I have to do that myself. In fact, if I go to a website I’ll probably be wasting time, even though I might enjoy the content.
So, here’s some things I do, or try to do, to manage my time and resources – the old-fashioned way:
Prioritize – The first thing is to figure out what’s important. What are you working on and if more than one thing, which is the one that needs immediate attention, like if you have a deadline looming. On top of that, there’s day to day things that need attention so where do they fit in? Make a list. Put off till tomorrow what can be put off. Break bigger projects into smaller units. Some say do the most important tasks first, sometimes I do, but sometimes I blow off the easy ones first. Part of the reason is because they are easy. But part of it is because it gives me a feeling of accomplishment and that gives me motivation to tackle the bigger projects. The key is not to spend all your time on the small things.
See the trees, or a single tree, not the forest – If you look at the big picture, the forest, you’ll stop dead in your tracks. So break things down into smaller tasks. Plan to write a chapter or part of one, not the whole book in one sitting, not that anyone could really do that...
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Computers can be helpful. |
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Be organa-zized. |
Eliminate Distractions – I’m not as good at this as I used to be for a variety of reasons. But still, focus your energies. Focus on the tasks at hand. Try to avoid checking your phone, your e-mail, Facebook, etc. I’m not very good at this. I like to check in. But I work at home. We live in a semi-rural area. So I look at these things as my “watercooler.” Amy, my wife, or others who work in an office can gather round the proverbial watercooler and shoot the breeze, while taking a mini break from their work. These things, social media and e-mail, are my mini-breaks. My watercooler talk. That said, there comes a time when you have to turn them off and hit the work.
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A nice uncluttered office. |
Just Say No – Take a page from the Nancy Reagan playbook and just say no. Sometimes you have to turn down social engagements. Sometimes you have to turn down doing things for others. I get asked to blurb a lot and that’s a lot of reading and consequently a lot of time. I try to help as many people as I can, but sometimes it’s just bad timing and I have to say no. I feel bad but it has to be done.
Delegate – I’m very lucky in that Amy, takes a lot of the burden off of me so I can have the time to write. And I am a full-time writer so you’d think I’d have endless hours of time to do that. But it’s amazing how your day gets “nickel and dimed” away from you with little chores here and there.
Don’t Fritter – I know when I was younger and starting out I would often turn friends down to go to the movies or whatever. And I know some of them resented it and those friendships disintegrated over time. But, while it’s important to engage socially, don’t fritter your time. I could play all the time, but you have to be disciplined and sit down and get the work done. Lately, I’ve been having trouble focusing because of the issues I allude to above. But I’m figuring that’s a temporary state of affairs. Mostly I’ve been very disciplined and hope I will be again soon.
Here’s the real tip, the trick of the trade: just sit down and do it. Turn off the apps, don’t go to websites…except mine, of course. And work your butt off. As Hemingway said, just open a vein and bleed. That’s all there is to it.
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And now for the usual BSP:
Colman Keane interviewed me for his blog, Col's Criminal Library. Check it out:
http://col2910.blogspot.com/2019/02/questions-and-answers-with-paul-d-marks.html
http://col2910.blogspot.com/2019/02/questions-and-answers-with-paul-d-marks.html
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